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Monday, November 11, 2013

Time Out For Women

I am so grateful to have gone once again to Time Out For Women.
weekend!
 It has always been a fun, spiritual, encouraging, and inspiring way to spend the weekend with friends and family, well the women in your family, and to fellowship with other sisters! 


I have never left without feeling spiritually fed, encouraged and reassured that Heavenly Father knows me and my trials, and inspired to do and to be more!

I highly reccommend attending to all women, whether you are of my faith or not. I can't tell you how many brave women attend who are not of my LDS faith, but who like me, are wanting to be spiritually fed in a friendly and fun environment. 
This was my fourth year attending, my sisters second time, and my friends Melissa and Elizabeth's first time attending! 

I am so grateful for both of their friendships and for the beautiful experience from this weekend.


Wednesday, November 6, 2013

The perfect cure for a bad day...

What is the perfect cure for a no-good-very-bad day?

Chocolate!

How about exploding chocolate that makes a mess and tastes burnt?

Yep. That was my day yesterday.

Just before my exploding chocolate, I had also discovered that my Logan had left the refrigerator door open right before we left to go run errands... 
Yep, for two and a half hours it was wide open.
Awesome.

I am so glad I had chocolate to make it all better.


...can't resist that smile. I love you, Logan.

Monday, November 4, 2013

Fifth Disease....

Fifth Disease.... Funny name. Actually a frustrating name cause it gives you zero information on what it is, what it does,  how you got it, and how you get rid of it!

Apparently "Fifth disease" got its name because it was fifth in a list of historical classifications of common skin rash's children get.

It is more common in children than adults. Most people get a rash on their chest, back, butt, or arms and legs. 
In Aiden's case, he got it on all of the above!
All over. 
The rash can be itchy, especially on the soles of the feet. The rash can vary in intensity and may come and go for several weeks. 
Seriously?!

It usually goes away in 7 to 10 days, but it can last several weeks. As the rash starts to go away, it may look lacy.

Sounds exciting... not.

Fifth disease (Parvovirus B19) spreads through respiratory secretions (such as saliva or nasal mucus) when an infected person coughs or sneezes. You are most contagious when it seems like you have "just a cold" and before you get the rash or joint pain and swelling. After you get the rash, you are probably not contagious. 

So now that my son is covered from head to toe in this rash, he's no longer contagious?? 

Once you recover from fifth disease, you develop immunity that generally protects you from parvovirus B19 infection in the future.
Well, thank goodness for that. Once this nightmare clears, he's done!

There is no vaccine or medicine that can prevent fifth disease (parvovirus B19 infection.)

Awesome. :/





Sunday, November 3, 2013

National pregnancy and infant loss remembrance month...

"The worst thing a mother goes through is having to give her sweet angel back to Heaven."

October is National Infant and Pregnancy Loss Remembrance month.
I actually did not know that it was.
 Like most things in life, you don't know or think about something until it affects you or your life. 
Until it's right in your face.

Like autism....

October is National Infant and Pregnancy Loss Remembrance Month...
An unfortunate coincidence occurred recently when a friend of mine lost her baby... words cannot describe her pain, and I found myself at a loss for words to comfort her with.
 I am just so glad to have been there for her. 
I realized that the only thing I could do is be there for her, and maybe offer a few things to help her through such a tragic time in her life.
I decided to put together a little care package: Tissues, Soft Socks, Homemade Cookies, Lotion, A Sweet Candle, A Card.... and lots of hugs.


My heart goes out to my dear friends, and to all mothers who have lost a child. 

 "There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world." 


Saturday, October 5, 2013

Two from Saturday Morning...




Here are my notes on two of the talks from the Saturday Morning session of the 183rd semi-annual General Conference of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints:

David A. Bednar

"As we live the law of tithing, we often receive significant but subtle blessings that are not always what we expect and easily can be overlooked. ...Often as we teach and testify about the law of tithing we emphasize the immediate, dramatic, and readily recognizable temperable blessings we receive. And surely such blessings do occur. Yet some of the diverse blessings we obtain as we're obedient to this commandment are significant but subtle. Such blessings can only be discerned if we are both spiritually attentive and observant."
David A. Bednar

"A subtle yet significant blessing we receive is the spiritual gift of gratitude that enables our appreciation for what we have, and to constrain desires for what we want. A grateful person is rich in contentment, an ungrateful person suffers in the poverty of endless discontentment."
David A. Bednar 

"In the financial operations of the church, two basic and fixed principles are observed. First, the church lives within its means and does not spend more than it receives. Second, a portion if the annual income is set aside as a reserve for contingencies and unanticipated needs. For decades the church had taught its membership the principle of setting aside additional food,  fuel, and money to take care of emergencies that night arise. The church as an institution simply follows the same principles that are taught repeatedly to the members."
 David A. Bednar 

"... Your faith strengthens my faith. Your devotion makes me more devoted. And your goodness and willing obedience to the law of tithing inspires me to be a better man, husband, father, and church leader. Thank you for your goodness and faithfulness as you honor your covenants."
David A. Bednar 

The Widows Might:
"...She in her want did cast in all that she had, even all her living."

"The honest payment of thing is much more than a duty, it is an important step in the process of personal sanctification. To those of you who pay your tithing, I commend you. To those of you who presently are not obeying the law of tithing, I invite you to consider your ways and repent. I testify that by your obedience to this law of The Lord the windows of heaven will be opened to you. Please do not procrastinate the day of your repentance."
David A. Bednar 
----

Dieter F. Uchtdorf

"The search for truth has led millions of people to the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. However, there are some who leave the church they once loved.
One might ask, "If the gospel is so wonderful why would anyone leave?"
Sometimes we assume it is because they have been offended or lazy or sinful. Actually, it is not that simple.
In fact, there is not just one reason that applies to the variety of situations. Some of our dear members struggle for years with a question whether they should separate themselves from the church. In this church that honors personal agency so strongly, that was restored by a young man who asked questions, and sought answers, we respect those who honestly search for truth. It may break our hearts when their journey takes them away from the church we love, and the truth we have found, but we honor their right to worship almighty God according to the dictates of their own conscience, just as we claim the privilege for ourselves."
"...to those who have separated themselves from the church I say, ' my dear friends there is yet a place for you here. Come and add your talents, gifts, and energies to ours. We will all become better as a result."
Dieter F. Uchtdorf

"One of the purposes of the church is to nurture and cultivate the seed of faith, even in the sometimes sandy soil of doubt and uncertainty. Faith is to hope for things which and not seen but which are true. Therefore, please, my dear brothers and sister, my dear friends, first doubt your doubts before you doubt your faith.
We must never allow doubt to hold us prisoner and keep us from the divine love, peace, and gifts that come through faith in the Lord Jesus Christ."

"Some might say,"I just don't fit in with you people in the Church." If you could see into our hearts you will probably find that you fit in better than you suppose. You might be surprised to find that we have yearnings, and struggles, and hopes similar to yours. Your background or upbringing might seem different from what you perceive in many Latter-day Saints, but that could be a blessing! Brothers and sisters, dear friends, we need your unique talents and perspectives. The diversity of persons and people's around the globe is a strength of this church. Some might say," I don't think I could live up to your standards." All the more reason to come! The church is designed to nourish the imperfect, struggling and exhausted. It is filled with people who desire with all their heart to keep the commandments even if they haven't mastered them yet.
Some might say," I know a member of your church who is a hypocrite. I could never join a church that makes someone like him a member."
If you define hypocrites as someone who fails to live up perfectly to what he or she believes, then we're all hypocrites. None of us is quite as Christ-like as we know we should be. But we earnestly desire to overcome our faults and the desire to sin, and to become better with the help of the atonement if Jesus Christ. If these are your desires, then regardless of your circumstances, your personal history, or the strength of your testimony, there is room for you in this church. Come, join with us."
Dieter F. Uchtdorf

Friday, October 4, 2013

You worry about your kids too much...




"You worry about your kids too much."

I know I am the only mother who has heard this. 
No one else has relatives, friends, and sometimes complete strangers come up and say these precious words to them...

What do they mean, anyway? 
What is the thought-process behind saying that to someone?

"You worry about your kids too much."

Even said in the most sincere and loving way...
Is it a compliment meant to comfort?
Just a sarcastic gesture? 
Praise? No.
An insult? 

One little statement has a lot of power. It can do so much harm. Unintentional maybe, but the damage is done.

We mothers are often referred to as rocks and pillars of strength. We have the ability to endure and provide and overcome. We have a maternal instinct that drives us to do great things.

But we are also sponges.

We absorb everything, and we hold it deep inside until one of two things happen: we cannot hold anymore, or we are "squeezed" to our limit.

Then it all comes pouring out.

And ironically, after that happens, we are told how sensitive and emotional we women are, and go right back to absorbing again.

We mothers are criticized on everything we do. And everything we don't do. Every move we make or don't make. And we are questioned, and somehow every question is appropriate to ask.

People will often only lend a hand because they see us "struggling." 
But more often than not, they will simply offer their "words of wisdom."

To that I say, "Thanks, I'll store that away..."

Save the world. Promote world peace. Stop world hunger. Save the dolphins, plant a tree, don't use plastic bags...
Here's one to add to the list:

Be nice to mommies!

... even the ones who worry about their kids too much. 

Thanks.

Footprints...

... I don't understand why when I needed you most you would leave me." The Lord replied, "My precious, precious child, I love you and would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, It was then that I carried you."

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... Families are Forever ...

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